So you’ve decided you want a dog. You’ve decided on the type of dog you want. How do you go about it? What should you think about.
Bringing a new dog into your life is a deeply rewarding experience, but it’s also a big decision that comes with long-term responsibilities. Choosing the right dog for your lifestyle, personality, and household can mean the difference between a joyful relationship and a frustrating mismatch. Whether you’re leaning toward a playful puppy or considering giving a rescue dog a second chance, here’s everything you need to know to make the right choice.
1. Puppy vs Rescue: Which is right for you?
One of the first choices you’ll face is whether to adopt a puppy or bring home a rescue dog. Both have benefits and challenges; the right choice often depends on your experience level, time commitment, and preferences.
The pros and cons of getting a puppy
Puppies are undeniably cute and give you the chance to shape their behaviour and habits from day one. You’ll watch them grow and bond with them through training, play, and daily care. However, puppies are a full-time job. They require:
- House training
- Chewing supervision
- Socialization
- Daily mental and physical stimulation
If you have the time, energy, and patience, a puppy can be a great fit. But for busy professionals or families with limited time, this phase can be overwhelming.
Why rescue dogs deserve a second look
Rescue dogs come in all ages and sizes. Many are already house-trained and past the destructive chewing phase (but not all!). They often require less basic training and may be ready for family life right-away. Plus, adopting from a shelter or rescue group gives a dog a second chance at happiness.
However, some rescue dogs may have unknown backgrounds or need time to adjust to their new environment. Patience and understanding are key, especially if the dog has been through trauma or neglect.
So, which should you choose?
If you’re new to dog ownership or have limited time, an adult rescue dog might be a better fit. If you’re committed to investing in long-term training and want to raise a dog from the ground up, a puppy may be your path.
2. Finding the right breeder: Avoiding puppy farms
If you’ve decided a puppy is the right choice, it’s critical to find a reputable breeder. The sad truth is that not all breeders are ethical. Puppy farms (also known as puppy mills) put profit before animal welfare, often at the expense of the dogs’ health and well-being.
Signs of a good breeder:
- Invites you to meet the puppy’s mother and littermates
- Keeps the dogs in clean, home-like environments (not kennels or cages)
- Provides health screening and vet records for the puppies and parents
- Asks you questions to ensure their pups go to good homes
- Doesn’t have multiple breeds available at once or litters year-round
Red flags of a puppy farm:
- Won’t let you visit or only offers to meet in a public place
- Puppies are delivered too early (before 8 weeks)
- Offers no vet or vaccination records
- Doesn’t provide proper socialisation or playtime
- Has poor online reviews or avoids giving references
A reputable breeder is in it for the love of the breed, not the money. They should be as concerned about your suitability as a dog owner as you are about finding a good puppy.
3. What to Look for in a Puppy
Whether you’re buying from a breeder or adopting a young rescue, it’s important to evaluate the puppy’s health, temperament, and overall fit for your lifestyle.
Temperament testing
Spend time observing the puppy’s behaviour. Is it:
- Confident or shy?
- Playful or aggressive?
- Curious or fearful?
- A well-socialised puppy should be curious, friendly, and open to being handled. Avoid puppies that appear overly timid, lethargic, or show signs of fear-aggression unless you’re experienced in behaviour training.
Health indicators
Look for signs of good health:
- Clear eyes and ears
- Clean nose with no discharge
- Soft, full coat with no bald spots or fleas
- Normal gait and coordination
- Good energy levels (but not hyperactivity)
Don’t hesitate to ask for a vet check or request to see medical records. It’s also wise to get a second opinion from your own veterinarian after bringing your puppy home.
Lifestyle compatibility
Consider your living situation and energy levels. Do you:
- Have a large garden or live in an apartment?
- Work long hours or stay home most of the day?
- Want a jogging companion or a couch cuddler?
Different breeds and individual puppies will have varying needs for exercise, space, and companionship. For example, a Border Collie puppy in a one-bedroom flat with little exercise is a recipe for disaster, while a Bichon Frise may thrive in the same environment.
Final Thoughts
Choosing the right dog isn’t just about what you want—it’s about finding the right match for both your needs and the dog’s. Whether you’re adopting a senior rescue or buying a pedigree puppy from a responsible breeder, do your research, ask the right questions, and be honest with yourself about what you can offer.
A dog is not just a pet, it’s a commitment, a companion, and a lifelong friend. Take the time to choose wisely, and you’ll be rewarded with unconditional love, tail wags, and years of unforgettable memories.